My lovely dad, Wal Davies, died on August 12th, aged 89.

A man sitting on the ground holding a baby in a cozy outfit, surrounded by potted plants and flowers in a garden setting.
dad and the infant me
Two people walking along a seaside promenade, with a grassy area on one side and water on the other. The man carries a red backpack, while the woman walks with a crutch.
dad, accompanying me on a walk to Lytham windmill after my stroke

Dad was a gentle, smart, and incredibly silly man.

Black and white image of a man with a shocked expression, his face appears distorted with motion blur.
dad and me photographing our reflections at the Edinburgh camera obscura
A mirror reflecting two individuals standing in front of it, with decorative wall art featuring palm leaves in the background and soft lighting from wall sconces.
A convex security mirror reflecting a group of people in a subway station, showcasing the tiled floor and the station's walls.
New York reflections
Two people posing in front of a mirrored surface in a scenic landscape, featuring mountains and a lake.
more reflections, with Hels, a few years ago, at Loch Goil

He was a jazz musician of extraordinary talent: from a teenager . . .

Three musicians playing saxophone and trumpets in a dimly lit room.

to his final years.

An elderly man playing the saxophone in a sunlit room, sitting on a chair with a wooden wall in the background.

Dad loved the music deeply and unconditionally, as he loved so many things:

A small black dog standing on a rug at the entrance of a kitchen, with a person in the background wearing purple pants.
My dad’s beloved dog, Judy
A black dog sitting calmly in a lush garden with greenery, flowers, and a gravel path, while two people are seated at a table in the background.
Bruce, who was much loved by dad and who, in his turn, adored him

. . .me and my sister . . .

A man sits on a low wall, looking at his phone, while two young children lean against the wall beside him. The children wear knitted sweaters and are positioned near a plant, with a grassy area in the background.
Hels, my dad, and me, all wearing grandma-knitted arans
Three people posing together outdoors in a scenic landscape, with mountains and a lake in the background. They are dressed in winter clothing and smiling at the camera.

. . .his grandkids, Robyn and Louis, and especially his partner in crime, my Ma, to whom he was married for 56 years.

Group photo of a large family standing together outside a brick building with a cross, dressed in 1970s fashion.
Two individuals sitting on a bench at a subway station, with a tiled wall and overhead signage indicating 'New York Law School.' The platform is empty except for a trash can, and the lighting highlights the architectural features.
An elderly man and woman posing together in a bright room with windows, both smiling and looking at the camera. The man is wearing glasses and a plaid shirt, while the woman has curly hair and is dressed in a scarf.

Dad was a complete original and we all loved him very dearly.

As you might imagine, I’ve been thinking a lot about Dad, and his long, creative life. But for now I’d just like to warmly thank the staff on the Lomond Ward at the Vale of Leven, who cared for him so thoughtfully in his final days. I am grateful to them, and I am also incredibly grateful for the fact that I was able to be with Dad – and his music – when he died: so many times, as I drove to and from the hospital, I thought of those of you with elderly parents who, during the Covid times, were denied this experience. Recent bereavement is not especially conducive to managing a business, but be assured that I am knitting.


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325 responses to “Wal Davies”

  1. I\’m so sorry for your loss Kate, he sounds like he was an amazing man.

  2. Having lost my dad 11 years ago and my mum last year, remember fondly, cherish the memories and be thankful he gave 50% of his DNA to make you who you are. You are amazing because of his (and your mum’s) input into you life.

  3. Marion Yeaman Avatar
    Marion Yeaman

    A lovely tribute Kate, to a very special person, whose loss . A life well lived Kate, we all have our time and he used his well. What more can we ask for. Sending my love🙏🏼

  4. Frances Grassi Avatar
    Frances Grassi

    Lovely sentiments and lovely pictures.

  5. Barb Kelly Avatar
    Barb Kelly

    Kate those wonderful memories will never be forgotten or the love he gave to all of you.
    I still wake up nine years after my Mum passed and think what would she think of this or how did she do that!
    But they live on in us and still help to direct us in always striving to be better people.
    Take time and think about those memories.
    With love Barb

  6. Jan Williamson Avatar
    Jan Williamson

    So sorry you have lost your wonderful Dad. Sending deepest sympathy, it’s a very hard time.

  7. A lovely tribute to your father, who made the world a better place with his music and lovely personality. My condolences to you and your family. His heart will always be close to yours.

  8. Linda Guinan Avatar
    Linda Guinan

    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

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    swimmingbc403c9336

    May his memory bless you and your loved ones. Hugs DeDe

  10. bearprofoundc887808243 Avatar
    bearprofoundc887808243

    Dear Kate,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your Dad sounds like he was a wonderful person. Thank you for sharing your photos and memories, it reminds me to hold dear the people who are important in my life.

    Thank you also for your emails in general. They are beautiful and inspiring.

    With kind regards,
    Cicela

  11. frieddeliciouslyfac1640c4f Avatar
    frieddeliciouslyfac1640c4f

    My sympathies to you and your family, both human and animal.  What a truly lovely remembrance of your dad.  Beverley

  12. I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Thank you for sharing some of the great memories you have of him. Take care of yourself in this sad time.
    Kindest,
    Peta 🌹

  13. Susan Sharpe Avatar
    Susan Sharpe

    Kate, what a lovely tribute to your father. I’m sure he would be/ and was, so proud of you and all that you have accomplished, and endured. Please accept my sincere thoughts for you and your family at this time of passing. My feelings for my dad, who died in 2000, mirror yours although I was never able to offer such a beautiful tribute as you have accomplished for your dad. Sincerely, Sue Sharpe, Cape Cod, MA

  14. Nancy Neff Avatar
    Nancy Neff

    Oh, Kate. Best wishes for peace to you and your family in this time of acute grief.

  15. Fiona Glenn Avatar
    Fiona Glenn

    Thank you so much for sharing your Dad with us, your “online family”. What a beautiful man. Blessings and love to you and your “family family”.

  16. I am so very sorry.

  17. Sue Williams Avatar
    Sue Williams

    Sending you love at the loss of your Dad. How very blessed you were to have him in your life for such a long time. But he will always live on in your heart 🙏🏻

  18. Alison Coutts Avatar
    Alison Coutts

    I’m so very sorry for your loss 😢 but memories are a wonderful thing.

  19. So sorry for your loss.…💞

  20. Dianne Barry Avatar
    Dianne Barry

    So sorry for loss of your lovely talented dad. Such a beautiful tribute to him. My deepest condolences at this heart sore time to you and your loved ones.
    Dianne

  21. Kathleen O'Meara Avatar
    Kathleen O’Meara

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  22. Debrielle Avatar
    Debrielle

    I’m am so sorry to hear about your Dad.
    May God bless you all through this time of grief.

  23. 💕

  24. Dear Kate,
    I had been thinking of you lately since you’d been a bit silent. Now I understand the reason. I am very sorry for the loss of your dear dad. What a wonderful person he was. Of course I am reminded of my father. Although he’s no longer on this side, he lives on in my heart and memories, in the joy with which he lived his life and his devotion to his family and all things he cared about. He continues to be an inspiration to me, as I’m certain your dad will continue to be for you. Please be well and take care of yourself.

  25. Angela Oliver Avatar
    Angela Oliver

    Im so sorry for your loss, the grief hits us in different ways at different times. Take care of yourself, I found l couldn’t concentrate to read, and didn’t feel like doing anything of my hobbies except gardening and walking , do whatever absorbs you at this time.
    As a Christian these past three years since, l have found great consolation, peace and hope from my faith. Angela oliver.

  26. Diane Prager Avatar
    Diane Prager

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  27. I’m so sorry for your loss, you have beautiful memories of your father, beautiful to see the love you have for him. My parents have past for a while and I will say I think about them everyday. Everyday you think of him you keep them alive in your heart. All the best.

  28. Cathy Hume Avatar
    Cathy Hume

    Enjoy and cherish all the wonderful memories.

  29. ccook19b Avatar

    My sincerest condolences during this sad time. I know how hard it is to lose beloved parents, but I hope you\’ll be able to look back at the good times, and be thankful you had him for as long as you did. May I suggest knitting a piece in his memory in his favorite colors and/or his preferred style?Christine CookSent from my Galaxy

  30. Kathleen E Allan Avatar
    Kathleen E Allan

    Carrying you tucked up under my heart! Take whatever time you need. We will be here.
    Kathleen

  31. Hi Kate.
    My dearest condolences on the death of your father. I know from the many years I have been following you he was a man with a great sense of humor and much love for you all. I hope you, your family, the hounds all have some time to remember Wal and find comfort that he is with you in memory every day.
    Much fond love, the shmackos lady.

  32. dorisfishman Avatar
    dorisfishman

    So sorry for your loss, Kate. What a lovely tribute. He sounds like a Dad extraordinaire and so blessed to have had him in your life for all the years. It’s never enough, I know. Hope all your fond memories sustain you. With sincere sympathy, Doris Fishman

  33. Nancy Blackwell Avatar
    Nancy Blackwell

    May his memory be a blessing.

  34. Noel Mcgonigle Avatar
    Noel Mcgonigle

    I’m very sorry for your loss.

  35. Kate Deighton Avatar
    Kate Deighton

    So very sorry for your loss Kate. It probably feels like hell at the moment. I lost my Mum 9 years ago. I still miss her like hell but I do at least smile when I think of her now.
    Take care of yourself. He would want you to be happy

  36. Carren J Stika Avatar
    Carren J Stika

    I am so sorry for the loss of your father. What a beautiful tribute to an exceptional and loving person. The pictures you so graciously shared with all of us convey so much personal warmth, family love, and your father’s spark of creativity and playfulness. My sincere condolences to you and your family. How blessed you were to have such a wonderful gentleman as your father.

  37. Love you Kate! Grief is so hard! And it repeats. It is the most painful, and the pain seems sharp and neverending. However, it does subside over time, becoming softer, involving less and less terminal pain, and becoming something we live with.

  38. Lena Skoglund Avatar
    Lena Skoglund

    What a wonderful thing to say about you dad. A very silly man♥️♥️♥️

  39. Sympathy to you and yours on the loss of your Dad. He sounds like a wonderful human being.

  40. Absolutely lovely!

  41. Wendy Roberts Avatar
    Wendy Roberts

    Dear Kate, sending my deepest condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing a few remembrances of the lovely man who was your dad ❤️

  42. So very sorry for your loss. The photos show fond memories and lots of love. Hopefully the memories will give you comfortRuthe from New Hampshire, USA

  43. Pat Bennett Avatar
    Pat Bennett

    Very sorry for your loss, Kate. He must have been a wonderful father.

  44. tanasaya48b35d391 Avatar
    tanasaya48b35d391

    I\’m so sorry for you loss. May his memory be a blessing to you. Sincerely, Tan

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  45. I’m so sorry about your dad. I miss mine a lot and it’s been years. Take your time getting back to work. You’ve only got the one dad. It’s a big loss. 💔

  46. Susan Pigman Avatar
    Susan Pigman

    I’m so sorry for your and your family’s loss. May your father’s memory be a blessing to all those lucky enough to have known him.

  47. Angela Almond Avatar
    Angela Almond

    May he rest in peace and rise in glory. And may the good memories, and the love of friends and family be your strength and stay in the days ahead ❤️🙏

  48. Cynthia Connor Avatar
    Cynthia Connor

    Sending loving thoughts your way.

  49. Melanie Price Avatar
    Melanie Price

    Thank you so much for sharing this really sad news.Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

  50. mkh50kzo Avatar

    Your dad had a life that was something to celebrate. I’m sorry he’s not here anymore, but so happy for you that you had a dad like him.

    Mary

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  51. Susan Kirkland Durette Avatar
    Susan Kirkland Durette

    Dear Kate,
    I want to express my deepest condolences to you on the passing of your father. I enjoyed reading about your father and he sounded like a wonderful man. Be blessed.
    Susan

  52. Gerri4knits Avatar
    Gerri4knits

    Lovely tribute.  So sorry for your loss.

  53. Karin Ott Avatar
    Karin Ott

    🤍

  54. Such a beautiful tribute to your beloved dad. Sending you 💕

  55. Rosie Watkins Avatar
    Rosie Watkins

    Acknowledging and despite huge vacuum & shock in our hearts, every stitch is a prayer of gratitude for a life well lived…clearly fully himself rejoicing in the love flowing throughout and surrounding his family. Not to mention his pride in you💚 as we continue to love our ones who have preceded us… x

  56. Cornelia Avatar

    Dear Kate,

    I‘m sorry for your loss! Thank you very much for sharing this lovely tribute to your dad with us. My dad will turn 89 later this year, and I keep wondering how the time I‘ll have left with him.

  57. Thank you for sharing your memories of such a lively papa.

  58. Sandra Spaulding Avatar
    Sandra Spaulding

    I am so sorry for your loss and happy to know that you have such great memories of him.

  59. Lovely memories of your Dad. So sorry for your loss.

  60. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. You have written a beautiful tribute to your father, full of memories that are heart felt and with moment of frivolity, which shows what a wonderful man he was.

    I am holding you in my heart,

    Brenda

  61. Francesca Wellby Avatar
    Francesca Wellby

    Dearest Kate, my warmest regards to you. Looking at those pics of you & your dad brought tears to my eyes. What deep treasures of memory you have, so important to get through these times..
    sending love to you & your family ..
    A great fan of your work .. xxf

  62. I am sorry for your loss of your beloved father. Thank you for sharing wonderful memories that you and Hels had with your Dad. Sending infinite Canadian e-hugs and love.

  63. Hope Musick Avatar
    Hope Musick

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in May. It’s definitely hard to do more than knit. May your loving memories sustain you during this hard time.

  64. Penelope Kostick Avatar
    Penelope Kostick

    Walk slowly with your grief, engage with it and feel at peace. Sadly, loss is all part of life’s rich tapestry and as heavy as it feels just now, is, I am sure inspiring your business! It’s good to take a break and reflect on someone so loved and cherished. Your dad had lovely kind eyes. My thoughts are with you.❤️

  65. Lisa Thompson Avatar
    Lisa Thompson

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

  66. llamasublime44b8757e23 Avatar
    llamasublime44b8757e23

    Deepest Condolences to you and your family🕊️

  67. Penelope Avatar

    A lovely tribute to your Dad. The loss of a parent is a real turning point in life. Take time to just be.

  68. Dawn Mason Avatar
    Dawn Mason

    Hello Kate,I loved seeing your photos of your dad and reading about him.  My husband of 52 years died nearly a year ago and I am stil lreflecting on all his wonderful qualities so reading about your dad reminds me yet again.  Gone but not forgotten. Dawn x

  69. janstebarra Avatar
    janstebarra

    Oh Kate, my thoughts are with you. It is a time of sadness, of course, but also gratitude for the good times. Your Dad sounds amazing. Lots of love, Janet

  70. Mary Lauve Avatar
    Mary Lauve

    My condolences, Kate, to you and to all your family. I can see, by the gleam in his eye in your pictures, what a lovely man he was.
    I am so sorry for your loss.

  71. suerayner@btopenworld.com Avatar
    suerayner@btopenworld.com

    Dear Kate

    Such wonderful memories of a lovely man.  You will miss him dreadfully.

    My father died just over 19 years ago and I still miss his voice ( he lived in Florida and I live in England).

    Sending sincere condolences and thank you for sharing your beautiful memories with us.

    With love

    Susan x

  72. Nancy Robinson Avatar
    Nancy Robinson

    My condolences on the loss of your dad. You have many good memories that will help you smile when you remember him.

  73. Christina Imm Avatar
    Christina Imm

    My sincerest condolences. The loss of a parent is a bit of loss of oneself. Bon courage

  74. I am so very sorry for your family’s deep loss, Kate. Thank you for sharing pictures and a bit of your dad with us.

  75. Kathleen Shaw Avatar
    Kathleen Shaw

    He sounds like someone who enjoyed life on a daily basis, My father was the same. It is so wonderful that you got to share his life. Be well.

  76. Marion Flanary Avatar
    Marion Flanary

    I am incredibly sorry for the loss of your Dad. He sounds like an incredible man.

  77. Heather in Colorado Avatar
    Heather in Colorado

    Goodness, condolences. I hope your memories help during this time and going forward.😢😢

  78. Wishing you and everyone in your family love, peace, and blessings.

  79. Janet White Avatar
    Janet White

    So sorry for your loss, Kate. It happens to all of us but is never easy. Your father sounds like a wonderful man, father, partner and creative. I’m sure so many hearts go out to you today from all over the world. Thank you for all you do and share. Janet, Edmonds WA, US

  80. Wilma Scorrar Avatar
    Wilma Scorrar

    Our condolences. Cherish the memories.
    Wilma and Bob Scorrar

  81. Kim de Gannes Avatar
    Kim de Gannes

    So condolences for your loss Kate. My father passed away 3 years ago and I think of him every day. He was very accomplished like your father. I’m so glad you have knitting to help get you through this difficult time. It is a comfort. Be well.

  82. Betty Green Avatar
    Betty Green

    Sincere condolences.

  83. What a loving tribute to what sounds like a wonderful talented man. My sympathy to you from far away ❤️
    Ann

  84. I’m so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great guy.

  85. Kathleen S. Linn Avatar
    Kathleen S. Linn

    Thank you for sharing these photos of a loving and beloved father. You have my condolences. It is so hard losing a parent. You must have made him very happy!

  86. Lucy Ovington Avatar
    Lucy Ovington

    So sad to hear about your dad Kate. Sending warm wishes, take your time grieving, it’s an interesting process for all concerned. Take great care.

  87. Anne Innes Avatar
    Anne Innes

    So very sorry to hear your sad news, Kate. Sending condolences to you and all your family.

    Thinking of you.

    Anne Innes

  88. Jane George Avatar
    Jane George

    Peace be with you. I do hope you recorded his voice. My dad died in 1983, and sadly his voice is what I miss the most.

  89. Clément Pascale Avatar
    Clément Pascale

    Quel bonheur d’avoir pu le garder avec vous aussi longtemps! Quels beaux souvenirs dans lesquels il vivra éternellement à vos côtés
    Toutes mes meilleures pensées d’affection vous accompagnent

  90. Wendy Lang Avatar
    Wendy Lang

    I’m so very sorry for your loss.

  91. Deepest condolences, Kate, to you and your family. Your father sounds like an extraordinary, creative person and parent who exemplifies ‘A Life Well-Lived’… Hope that many, many loving (*and occasional Very Silly) memories will lighten, at least a little, the days ahead.

  92. So very sorry for your loss ~ may memories be of comfort during this time. Especially the silly ones 💐💕🤪🎶
    )))hugs(((

  93. Marti K. Anderson Avatar
    Marti K. Anderson

    Beautiful. Knitting is so therapeutic with grief. Take your time. ♥️

  94. Oh Kate! My heart is with you and your family. May your beloved father’s memory be a blessing.

  95. Tessa Dillon Avatar
    Tessa Dillon

    I am truly sorry for your loss! My pop died a year ago at 99 yrs old and I always say, we know we will lose them but we are never ready to say goodbye.
    He sounds remarkable!

  96. gracefullycollective25ea52bfbc Avatar
    gracefullycollective25ea52bfbc

    Dearest Kate, I am with you. Was with my Dad when he died also. Susan

    Thistle be a beautiful day! While there is tea there is hope! ________________________________

  97. Oh Kate, I am so sad for your loss. Losing a dad is crushing.
    I am glad you shared a bit of him with us. (It gave me a moment to remember my own dad and father in law who was also a sax player and had a family band that played for our wedding 50 years ago.)
    Love lasts through all time, your memories will get you through.

  98. Christina Avatar
    Christina

    Thank you for sharing such a lovely tribute for your father.
    I wish you peace with all your happy memories.

  99. Hannelore Avatar
    Hannelore

    You never get over missing a wonderful person. It’s why they are missed and why they are remembered: they add to your happiness.

    I’m both happy and sorry for your loss; happy you knew him and shared beloved experiences with him and the hole this creates. Lucky you for having him

  100. I am so very sorry for your loss. I carry both parents in my heart and even though it has been more than 30 years since they have passed, they are right here with me as I am sure yours are with you as well. This isn’t anything you get over, as you know, you learn to carry it with you.

    Thank you for sharing this glimpse of your personal life with us, it’s very heartwarming and shows a happy life. I don’t think any of us care if you knit right now. We will respectfully wait while you remember, grieve and get a new footing in this different life.

  101. Mary E Hardy Avatar
    Mary E Hardy

    Kate,
    So very sorry for your loss. I hope the loving memories will be with you always.
    Mary Hardy

  102. So very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this lovely tribute.

  103. Hi,

    Of course, we do not know each other. I send you many condolences. What a lovely, moving tribute.

    Patty

  104. Shaun Pettine Avatar
    Shaun Pettine

    I am so sorry for your loss—it sounds like he was a wonderful man

  105. Jane Monesmith Avatar
    Jane Monesmith

    Oh Kate, what a beautiful tribute to your father, my husband just had a stroke on August 10, so my journey has begun. He has been placed in a rehab facility which is a four drive round trip. Unfortunately, I have not picked up my knitting since this happened, but you have given me inspiration! Thank you.

    I lost my dad many years ago, and I still miss his kind, gentle soul.

  106. Christine Lally Avatar
    Christine Lally

    What a lovely tribute to your father. Thank you for sharing your memories of him with us, and my condolences on your loss.

  107. stella kennedy Avatar
    stella kennedy

    A lovely tribute to your Dad. My deepest sympathy to you and your family

  108. I am so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.🙏🙏

  109. Beautiful, heartfelt, tribute to your father and family. Blessings and thanks for sharing the story.

  110. Lisa Fairhall Avatar
    Lisa Fairhall

    Kate — So sorry for your loss. My mom passed 15 years ago, my dad 10. But they are with me every day. Just as I know that your dad will be with you. — Lisa

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  111. Patricia Avatar

    Dear Kate
    I am very sorry for your loss
    My deeply condolences

    Patricia

  112. knitwit325 Avatar
    knitwit325

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. May his memory be as a blessing.Linda SelubLakewood, Colorado

  113. Thank you for sharing the beautiful memories of your lovely father.

    Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen.

    May the souls of all the faithful departed,
    through the mercy of God, rest in peace .

  114. Arlene Lewis Avatar
    Arlene Lewis

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear father. I lost my own in 1995. It is one of the hardest parts of life to say goodbye to those who meant so much to us. Memories are a wonderful gift that we can treasure always. Your dad sounds like he was indeed a very special person and you were blessed to have him in your life.

    Take care of yourself. Arlene Lewis

  115. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this tribute to your wonderful dad.

  116. Carole Jesmont Avatar
    Carole Jesmont

    Dear Kate,
    My heart goes out to you. Losing your father or mother, even if they live to be a good age, is a hard thing. But your tribute to your dad is lovely. You clearly tried very hard to capture the essence of who your father was and of the life he had lived, and I think you succeeded. I hope it’s some consolation as the years go by that you have so many happy memories of him.

  117. Kathy N. Avatar

    Your dad sounds like a fun, loving, interesting man. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  118. Bernie Bishop Avatar
    Bernie Bishop

    So many special memories, what a wonderful dad. Take care of yourself at this sad time.

  119. SHERRI GEE Avatar
    SHERRI GEE

    Deepest condolences to you and your family, Kate. It is so hard to lose one’s dad.

  120. So sorry flor your loss. Sending prayers for healing for your family.

  121. Robin L Huselton Avatar
    Robin L Huselton

    He sounds like he did a great job loving you and your family.

  122. Sending you much strength and light at this time of your loss. Thank you for sharing these images of your life with him and your family. Condolences.

  123. Dear Kate, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolences. He sounds like a wonderful person who left you with a lifetime of great memories. Best regards, Delia

  124. Knitting has kept me sane during so many major life events. Thank you for sharing this great view of your father.
    Much love,
    Cate

  125. My condolences to you and your family, especially your Mum. So glad that you could be with him when he died. It is a privilege to be with a loved one when they pass.

  126. Dear Kate and family,
    Thinking of you and sending you love and comfort. Your memories and life will continue to bring your father’s abundance into this world.

    With sympathy,
    Margaret

  127. Oh Kate, I am so sorry. Bereavement leave is allowed, though I’m sure you and your team are managing it already. I’m glad you had a good staff shepherding you all through his final stages. All your stories about your parents paint them as magically creative. Passing on a love for any kind of art is such a gift to a child. I pray you and your family are surrounded by love as you grieve.

    Also you must have heard this all your life but you do look like your sister and mum. It’s cute to see it.

  128. Liz Clark Avatar
    Liz Clark

    What a treasure of a father. The world needs more of his like. My sympathies.

  129. My sincere condolences.
    Keep knitting!

  130. My own father died at forty-four after a long illness, so I was very young then. I sometimes feel a little bit of envy of those who had a long relationship with their fathers, but I mostly feel warmed to read about the love and to imagine all of the nice things my dad would have been and done too.

    Your dad sounds like a wonderful human and creative person and I thank you for sharing this. My sincerest condolences to you and your sister and mum and all loved ones.

    1. Mary Fallon Avatar
      Mary Fallon

      You are remarkable.

  131. Joan Ulwelling Avatar
    Joan Ulwelling

    So sorry for your loss. I lost my father 9 years ago. I think of him often and wonder what he would say about this or that. Love ❤️ to you

  132. Chris McColeman Avatar
    Chris McColeman

    Oh Kate, much as we know that death is an inevitable part of life it still hurts so much. Big hugs. No one is truly gone from this world as long as someone says their name and tells their stories.

  133. Joanne Gailius Avatar
    Joanne Gailius

    Dear Kate, from a faraway farm in the Kootenays of BC, Canada,
    My heart goes out to you…..and please feel no need to respond. Goodbye to a precious, well-loved and funny Dad (my list was the same, 24 years ago) is a difficult process that does ease over time…..grief is an interesting walk. I hear my Dear ol’ Dad’s voice (he called himself just that, d.o.d.) and it’s part of my everyday. It’s become a moment of smiles and snorts and he’s oft quoted in our family. Take good care of yourself.
    PS I’m grateful for you, your story and your designs.

  134. what a lovely man: beautifully remembered by you. i can feel his essence here. much love to you and yours, kate. xx

  135. Louisa Cochrane Avatar
    Louisa Cochrane

    My deepest condolences! Thanks for sharing your memories

  136. Wharton Betty Avatar
    Wharton Betty

    So very sorry for your loss.

  137. Juliet N Avatar

    What a beautiful tribute. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  138. Anne Beale Avatar
    Anne Beale

    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your Father

  139. This bought a tear to my eye and reminded me of loosing my own Dad back in September 2021. Thinking of you all.

  140. Madeleine Avatar
    Madeleine

    Dear Kate,
    My sincere condolences to you and the family on the loss of your beloved father. Such a lovely man with a fine family.

  141. Knit away, Kate, and listen to the music…💙

  142. Martha Smith Avatar
    Martha Smith

    I’m so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful remembrance for your lovely dad 💜

  143. Elaine in NYC Avatar
    Elaine in NYC

    So sorry for your loss, Kate. Losing a parent is terribly difficult. I hope your knitting provides some comfort.

  144. Linda Fischer Avatar
    Linda Fischer

    You just described my own dear father. Only substitute a cat and a trombone. I am sorry for your loss.

  145. L Kingsbury Avatar
    L Kingsbury

    Your memories of your Dad’s love will live forever.

    Thanks for sharing some bits of a beautiful life.

  146. Ellen Walsh-Sobel Avatar
    Ellen Walsh-Sobel

    My condolences. Your father was well loved and appreciated- your tribute was beautiful.
    Best, ellen New Jersey US

  147. Christiane Hallée Avatar
    Christiane Hallée

    Sending love to you and your family in these difficult times. The memories you shared are beautiful and heart warming.
    Take care
    Christiane

  148. Susan Blake Avatar
    Susan Blake

    Kate, of course you have sent us a lovely and loving tribute to a very special man. Thank you for sending this to us.

  149. Kate, my sincerest condolences. Thank you for introducing us to your wonderful father – he was clearly a very special man. It’s been 20 years since I lost my equally unique and amazing Dad, and I can tell you that you will forever have a Dad-shaped hole in your life, but it will get easier to live with. Truly.
    I found my garden to be the greatest solace at the time, and am heartened to know you have such a space to grieve and begin to adjust to life without him.
    Sending love to you and your family.

  150. Gilleoin Coull Avatar
    Gilleoin Coull

    So sorry to hear that Kate. My condolences and hugs to you and yours.

  151. Savannagal Avatar
    Savannagal

    I’m very sad to hear of your loss. May your many loving memories bring you solace.

  152. Anne Harriette Bugel Avatar
    Anne Harriette Bugel

    My being resonates with yours. Your dad seems quite the character. Clearly he will always be with you, just in a different way. Knit on.

  153. Sad news. Sending love & sympathy.

  154. Heartfelt condolences, Kate. I hope that once the immediate pain of grief has eased, your memories of a wonderful person give you comfort and joy.

  155. It’s good, so good, to have love and be loved. The heart continues to bloom.

  156. Rosalyn Ziebell Avatar
    Rosalyn Ziebell

    What a lovely tribute to your dad. He was obviously much loved, what more can one ask for.

  157. Elaine Spalding Avatar
    Elaine Spalding

    Condolences on your sad loss. It looks and sounds as tho’ your Dad had a blast of life.

    Business, schmisness – take care of yourself.

  158. Suzanne C Avatar
    Suzanne C

    What a beautiful tribute to your Dad.

  159. What a lovely tribute to your father. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope his memories continue to bless you.

  160. Rebecca H Avatar
    Rebecca H

    Kate,

    So sorry for the loss of your beloved Dad. There is nothing to compare to a wonderful, gentle Father. I had one and think of him daily. Wishing you peace and comfort with your memories.

  161. Deepthi Jayasinghe Avatar
    Deepthi Jayasinghe

    Oh dear Kate, I am sorry for your family’s loss. Your dad lived life to the fullest and most importantly you did him proud.
    That’s the best you could do for him and you did it!
    I know it’s very hard to lose a parent but the time will heal.
    Sending much love at this difficult time.
    Please take care.
    Deepthi

  162. I am so sorry for your loss. Seems as though it was a life well lived❤️. Thank you for sharing these deeply personal photographs and memories, in them and you, he surely lives on!

  163. Colleen Ostberg Avatar
    Colleen Ostberg

    Your Dad raised a beautiful, kind, creative and loving daughter.

  164. srowlls1 Avatar

    Thankyou for sharing this beautiful personal story

  165. Yolanda Avatar

    Oh Kate, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. From your writing, I feel like I knew him and would have liked him.
    Thinking of you as you navigate these coming days.,

  166. Amy Calkins Avatar
    Amy Calkins

    So very sorry that you have lost someone so dear to you but thank you for sharing the photos and the words to illustrate his essential place in your life with us. He sounds like a delightful person who will be greatly missed.

  167. Joan Miskin Avatar
    Joan Miskin

    Dear Kate,

    So sad to hear the news that you dad has died. Thank you for sharing family images of times with your dad.

    As time goes by, all the happy memories will come forward to replace the current sad ones.

    With love

    Joan

  168. Krista Hyde Avatar
    Krista Hyde

    May your dad’s memory be a blessing to you and your family.

  169. May he rest in peace!

  170. Pamela CACHIA Avatar
    Pamela CACHIA

    My deepest condolences to you and your family! Thanks for sharing your family pics. They were all very loving, warm and vibrant! May your dad rest in peace.

    Pls take care of yourself, Kate!

    Happy knitting!
    Pamela Cachia from Montreal

  171. Bethany Avatar

    Sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. My own father died 10 years ago and I will never not miss him. Hopefully your memories of your dad will comfort you now and in the coming years.

  172. Thank you for sharing this news and including pictures of your lovely, creative dad. Wishing you peace as you and your family grieve and remember.

  173. I am very sorry for your loss. 🩷

  174. I’m so sorry for your loss.   Cindy

  175. Elisabeth Parker Avatar
    Elisabeth Parker

    A lovely tribute. Thanks for sharing.With deep condolences,Betsy

  176. I am so sorry for your loss, Kate. Having recently lost my 88-year-old dad in April, I know how difficult it is to lose a wonderful father. Hold in your thoughts that not everyone gets a man like that to call Dad. We are the lucky ones. My wish for you is peace.

  177. He sounds like a lovely man. My deepest sympathy and kind regards, Kelly

  178. I’m so sorry for your loss. When I lost my mom, I lost her stories and her memories of my life. I didn’t know I’d feel it like a lost limb. She was so deeply a part of me, and I only realized how deeply when she was gone and something that had been there in me had disappeared . A parent’s death is a profound type of loss, and you and your family are in my thoughts.

  179. Maximiliana Henze Avatar
    Maximiliana Henze

    I am sorry to hear that your dad died recently. It was nice to read a bit about him and see some pictures. Lots of love to the whole family.

    It is also nice to see Bruce again.

  180. Lynn McCallum Avatar
    Lynn McCallum

    My heart is with you.

  181. inspiringb07bcdc4ac Avatar
    inspiringb07bcdc4ac

    Kate, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. I loved your story of him and it looks like you had a wonderful life with him. You were very blessed to have that. I’m sending you my love and hope your tender memories bring you joy and comfort.

    Sherry from Spokane

  182. Dorothy Forrester Avatar
    Dorothy Forrester

    Dear Kate
    I’m very sorry about your dad. He must have been a wonderful person. I lost my mum in June. I understand.
    With sympathy to you and your family.
    Dorothy

  183. Tracey Fine Avatar
    Tracey Fine

    My deepest condolences, Kate.

  184. Judith Grant Avatar
    Judith Grant

    Thanks for sharing these lovely photos and memories. My thoughts are with you.

  185. sharonpearse Avatar
    sharonpearse

    Sympathy, Kate, & empathy. What an amazing man & father you had.

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  186. Susan Grantham Avatar
    Susan Grantham

    Such a lovely tribute to your dear father. The beautiful photographs brought tears to my eyes as it reminded me of the passing of my own parents and recently my older brother.
    Thank you and my sincerest condolences.
    Susan Grantham

  187. Madeleine Avatar
    Madeleine

    Lovely tribute to your Dad 🎶

  188. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  189. Kim Dixon Avatar
    Kim Dixon

    Kate,
    My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved father. May you be comforted by the manynyears of loving memories that will reside forever in your heart.

    God’s peace to you and yours,
    Kim Dixon

  190. Sincere condolences, Kate and your family. Thanks for sharing your Dad with us, what a special man, sending love from Australia, Ann

  191. Deborah Pikovsky Avatar
    Deborah Pikovsky

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to your father. May all your memories of your time together give you comfort.
    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

  192. The Other Kristen Avatar
    The Other Kristen

    Deepest condolences, Kate. This is a beautiful tribute, and thank you for your kindness in thinking of others even as you navigate your own grief.

  193. Patti Zager Avatar
    Patti Zager

    Our biggest loves are our biggest losses. With heartfelt condolences.

    Patti Zager

  194. chris Hughes Avatar
    chris Hughes

    Sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharinhg this beautiful tribute with us and sharing some of your happy memories.

  195. Leanne Wilkinson Avatar
    Leanne Wilkinson

    Extending my sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. You are the spitting image of him! And his creativity and talent didn’t fall far from the tree. Much love.

  196. Peace dear heart. Thank you for sharing your memories. xo j

  197. Julie Culshaw Avatar
    Julie Culshaw

    My condolences on your loss

  198. I am so terribly sorry, Kate. Such a loss. My daughter and I knit through my Dad’s final days in hospice. It was so…comforting. xx

  199. tatiana rex Avatar
    tatiana rex

    Beautiful

  200. Karen D Avatar

    Sending my condolences. Take the time you need to grieve. Your dad sounds wonderful; may the happy memories bring you comfort

  201. May your Dad’s memory be a blessing 💕

  202. Kate, I am so sorry that you lost your dad but happy that he had an incredibly full and joyful life. Your remembrance is lovely and brought me to tears. May his memory be a blessing.

  203. Alessandra Risso Avatar
    Alessandra Risso

    I don’t know you but for a lot of patterns I bought in your site … but I ´m still sorry for your lost, but I am sure he can lives forever in your mind and strong rêveries !!
    Dada

  204. I am sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like a lovely and loving man.

  205. May God bless and comfort you and your family, Kate. With love and prayers. Kate

    ________________________________

  206. Sorry to read your news. Your father sounds like a very special person and you will surely miss him a lot. Sending good thoughts for the weeks and months to come.

  207. Liliane Kerkhofs Avatar
    Liliane Kerkhofs

    I am so sorry for your loss, Kate, and I hope your favourite memories of him give you strength.
    💔

  208. Colleen Harrington Avatar
    Colleen Harrington

    Kate,
    Humbly saying I am sorry for the death of your Dad. It is so wonderful to have all those great memories to hold onto. He will always be in your heart. Wishing you solace.
    Colleen

  209. Beverly_Army Avatar
    Beverly_Army

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Wishing you comfort. All best, Beverly

  210. Many blessings to you. Thank you so greatly for sharing a wee bit of the life of your Dad. An incredible person.

  211. Katrina Hunt Avatar
    Katrina Hunt

    Deepest sympathy and much love from Australia. My beloved father passed away last year after a long and meaningful life full of love.

  212. I am so sorry for your loss 😪😪😪🙏🙏🙏. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Keep the good memories. Grief is a brutal ride. Stay strong. Sending hugs

  213. Cynthia A. Avatar
    Cynthia A.

    Sending condolences to you and your family. It sounds as if there is a huge empty space where your Dad once was.

  214. claremccrystal Avatar
    claremccrystal

    Thanks Kate,

                                  Lovely photos.

    Clare

    XX

  215. So sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. Thanks for sharing those photos, he looked like a lovely dad and reminded me of my dad who died 11 years ago. Take care of yourself.

  216. So sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute.

  217. brisklygreat1e3277ccad Avatar
    brisklygreat1e3277ccad

    So sorry for your loss. Sending you much love. Malika x

  218. Heather Avatar

    My condolences to you, Kate, on the loss of your father. And please don’t worry about your business, it’s more important to mourn your lovely father. He sounds like he was a real gem.

  219. Linda Applegate Avatar
    Linda Applegate

    He was a special person. Thank you for sharing his kindness and life’s joys. My heart is with you, Kate and family.

  220. Hi KateReally sorry for your loss. It sounds as he was an amazing man. My thoughts are with you and your family. Esther xx

  221. So sorry to hear about your Dad Kate. Thinking of you

  222. Nancy Lykins Avatar
    Nancy Lykins

    Such a lovely email tribute to your very special dad. Since condolences on this monumental loss, and may the wonderful memories he left you carry you through these difficult times.

  223. Many thoughts and condolences

  224. Megan Wood Avatar
    Megan Wood

    Thanks for sharing this lovely story with us. 😊❤️

  225. Although my parents passed in 2015 and 2017 I find I often hear my Dad’s voice and what he would say as advice as I pick up a screwdriver. I see my Mum’s enthusiastic face every time I produce a lovely cake. I wish you an equal joy in celebrating your Dad.
    With sympathy
    Kathy Harvey

  226. Carren Shulman Avatar
    Carren Shulman

    So sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

  227. Barbara Reinfeld Avatar
    Barbara Reinfeld

    Sorry for your loss Kate. Take special care of yourself. Kindest regards, Barbara 🐝

  228. I am sorry for the loss to you and your family of your father , I hope his passing was peaceful and dignified .

  229. Claire Holmes Avatar
    Claire Holmes

    So sorry to hear of your bereavement. You describe your lovely Dad so well and must miss him terribly. Grieving is different for everyone but during my own recent period of loss, I found knitting helped me cope when everything else was in discord. I hope you too find comfort with your needles and wool. Grieve well for your Dad and treasure the beautiful memories of such a wonderful man. Claire xx

  230. Stef Moenks Avatar
    Stef Moenks

    My sincere condolences 💐
    Love never dies ❤️

  231. helenmcknits Avatar
    helenmcknits

    I am so sorry for your loss, I really hope that the lovely memories provide comfort in the tough times ahead My father passed away in pre vaccine Covid times and it was hard, but I got comfort from remembering all the good times I had with him and on the really hard days, knitting really helped as it might be the only thing I managed to achieve some days

  232. Karen Harris Avatar
    Karen Harris

    Kate I’m so sorry. The loss of a parent is a hard thing. Sending love and hugs to you all

  233. Regina Wexler Avatar
    Regina Wexler

    So sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing these photos with all of us. May he rest in peace and may your memories sustain you and your family.

  234. Lizzie Gravestock Avatar
    Lizzie Gravestock

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I think there’s something undeniably special about the father/daughter bond and I know I felt utterly rudderless when my Pa died 10 years ago. You will have many ups and downs as your grief comes in waves but I hope you can take comfort from what a clearly special man he was, that he will always be a part of you and that a lot of people will be holding you and your family in their thoughts and prayers… May he rest in peace 💔

  235. Anne Bright Avatar
    Anne Bright

    I’m so very sorry for your loss Kate. Reading your email it was clear that your father had a life well lived and loved.

    Kind regards

    Anne

  236. Julie McDonald Avatar
    Julie McDonald

    My heartfelt blessings go to you and yours Kate. It’s never easy saying goodbye to much cherished family and friends. I hope you find great comfort in all gone before and in knowing your incredible skills and talent go greatly admired and appreciated by many of us. Be kind to yourself eat the cake, do what makes you feel better….life can indeed be hard at times. Big hug. Julie xxx

  237. Christine Avatar
    Christine

    Such a beautiful tribute to your dad. Sending my deepest sympathies to you and your family.

  238. Poppy Greenhouse Avatar
    Poppy Greenhouse

    Dear Kate,

    I\’m so sorry for your loss.

    I\’d love to write more meaningful words, but I can neither find them in my mother language, italian, let alone in english.

    Your newsletter is so luminous and tender… thank you 🌸

    I hope you take your time to be in that sacred moment for as long as you need to, surely surrounded by love.

    Warmly,

    Caterina (a knitter who loves what you create)

  239. Claudia Rhyn Avatar
    Claudia Rhyn

    dear kate

    we don^t know each other personally, but i think to know you a little bit through your wonderful knits, i have knitted several pullovers and hats after your patterns and enjoy very much your newsletter.

    in am very sorry for your loss. loosing a parent is a deep cut into ones life, especially if the relationship was good. i am thinking of you and your family during this difficult and sad time and wish you all the best. you’ll certainly keep a very warm and loving memory of your dad.

    lot’s of love claudia rhyn from switzerland

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  240. Kathryn Hagen Avatar
    Kathryn Hagen

    You have such wonderful memories! I am so sorry for your loss.

  241. Kim Lewis Avatar
    Kim Lewis

    So very sorry for your loss Kate. A life well lived .

  242. Zoe Ballantine Avatar
    Zoe Ballantine

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Being able to accompany someone to the furthest possible point

  243. Karry Green Avatar
    Karry Green

    I am sorry for your loss. I too lost my father this year. He was 96. I too was able to be with him until his last breath and so thankful for that. I wish you and your family peace.

  244. I am sorry for your loss and life after losing a parent is a very different place. I had no idea.
    I knitted a sweater, sitting next to my father, while he received chemo. It was in one of my all time favorite yarns, Buachaille. The yoke ended up massive so I never finished it. It sits, as it will forever, unfinished and a reminder of that precious time with my father.
    Take good care.

  245. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the beautiful pictures of you family.

  246. Leanne George Avatar
    Leanne George

    Hi Kate

    So sad to hear about your dad. It’s so hard to lose a loving parent. Thinking of you and hoping you are going okay.

  247. Bridget Rabbitts Avatar
    Bridget Rabbitts

    Thinking of you, Kate, as you navigate this time.My elderly sister died

  248. Marie LeQuelenec Avatar
    Marie LeQuelenec

    Condolences and love to you and your Family. Dads have a special bond to their girls. Death doesn’t break it. It makes you long for their presence, while simultaneously realising how lucky you were to have shared it for so long. Take care xxx

  249. Alison Magill Avatar
    Alison Magill

    Thoughts are with you. Never an easy time but looks like you have amazing memories to reflect on,

  250. Mrs Julia G Freeland Avatar
    Mrs Julia G Freeland

    Condolences on the loss of your much loved Dad x

  251. Brigitte Allain Dupre Avatar
    Brigitte Allain Dupre

    So sorry for you! He could have been so proud of his daughter! You keep my heart so warm everyday! Share my tender warmness dear Kate! Big hug, Brigitte

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  252. Alexa Kaskowitz Avatar
    Alexa Kaskowitz

    Sounds like a wonderful man. May his memory be a blessing.

  253. Karen Goward Avatar
    Karen Goward

    So sorry Kate xx

  254. Thank you for this beautiful portrait of your dad, Kate. I was really touched by your mention of those of us who lost beloved people during Covid. My mother died in July 2020, when her care home had been locked down for five months. Although I was able to be with her at the very end, I will never not be sad and angry that the last weeks of her life were characterised by loneliness and depression that I could do very little about. Or that after our last joyous outing in the February of that year I didn’t get to see her again until she was unconscious. I’m so glad you were able to be with your amazing father and his music at such an important time and I’m sure it meant the absolute world to him. Sending love and all good wishes as you and your family adjust to this huge loss.

  255. Warm regards and my sincere condolences. Cherish the beautiful memories!

  256. I am so sorry for your loss, Kate. But oh, how wonderful that you had each other.
    Sending love.

  257. Kim Sarson Avatar
    Kim Sarson

    Really sorry to hear your sad news but a wonderful tribute to your dear dad xx

  258. Love to you and your family at the loss of such wonderful person. How lucky to have had him in you life Xx

  259. I’m very sorry for your loss.

  260. Janice Stewardson Avatar
    Janice Stewardson

    Step by step,
    Day by day,
    May you find peace.

    My thoughts are with you.

  261. So sorry to hear this. So glad you had a Dad who loved and showed you how. What a blessing to be with him and have him safe and cared for at the end. Praying for peaceful rest.

  262. Sending love to you, thank you for sharing the lovely photos and remembering the magic moments with your Dad x x

  263. What a beautiful tribute to your much loved father. I hope your knitting brings you comfort.

  264. Thank you for sharing the lovely pictures and story of your dad. Sending you commiserations and comforts at this time x

  265. greenbean23004ccd2f Avatar
    greenbean23004ccd2f

    So sorry for your loss, never easy but some lovely memories.

  266. Laura M. Avatar

    My deepest condolences, dear Kate. Sending you a hug. Laura

  267. my condolences kate

  268. Pamela Gross Avatar
    Pamela Gross

    My thoughts are with you. Wrap yourself in all those wonderful memories. I’m grateful I was with both my parents when they passed. My dad at only 64 in 1979 and my mother in 2010 when she also was 89. My dad was an entrepreneur in the building and joinery work world. My mother was at home making clothes and looking after the home. Dad had a lot of cancer. My mother had lung cancer and I was able to turn my lounge into a nursing home so I could be with her. Take care

  269. I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad Kate … never easy, take care. xx

  270. So very sorry, Kate, and thinking of you at this time of loss. You gave a lovely tribute to such a talented man. I lost my Mum recently during a norovirus outbreak and wasn’t able to visit. You are right about the trauma that causes. Cherish those last, extra special, days. X

  271. nadagilbert Avatar
    nadagilbert

    Dear Kate

    I’m so sorry your loss. Wal sounds awesome. Sending best wishes from Sydney, Australia.

    Nada

  272. Linda C Avatar

    Losing a parent is so hard. Your reflection is beautiful. Thank you for sharing with us. What a delight to get a glimpse of your lovely father.

  273. Puella63 Avatar

    A life well lived. May he rest in peace.

    I loved the photos.

  274. Wilma Johnston Avatar
    Wilma Johnston

    So sorry to hear this. He was obviously cherished by all and you have so many wonderful memories of him 💙

    Much love,

    Wilma J

  275. Birgit Brabetz Avatar
    Birgit Brabetz

    oh dear
    i‘m so sorry for your loss
    big hugs
    lg birgit

  276. Sharon Bell Avatar
    Sharon Bell

    Dear KateI’m so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Sending love and prayers for all.Love Sharon x

  277. Andrea van Hoofstadt Avatar
    Andrea van Hoofstadt

    Dear Kate
    Sorry for your loss. You wrote a beautiful story of him, with lots of love in it. Now there is a sadness in your hart. In time, that is going to change in grateful, loving memories. Thank you for sharing this beautiful family story with us.

    Greetings from the Netherlands

  278. Carol Berger Avatar
    Carol Berger

    He looks like such a lovely man who’s left you with beautiful memories to hold in your heart forever. ❤️

  279. My warmest sympathies
    Christine

  280. What a lovely tribute to your Dad. He sounds like a wonderful Dad. You have clearly inherited his creative talent.
    It was so thoughtful of you to acknowledge how difficult losing someone during COVID was.
    Photographs are so important when our loved ones are gone. Thank you for sharing

  281. Geneviève Borreux Avatar
    Geneviève Borreux

    I am so sorry for you, Kate. You had the joy to know such a wonderful person, I am sure you will cherish his memory for ever.
    Keep good care of yourself and keep knitting, this is such a good memory.
    Geneviève

  282. My deepest condolences

  283. My deepest condolences to you and your family. May your lovely Dad rest in peace. 🌹

  284. Juliet Rowland Avatar
    Juliet Rowland

    A very lovely and moving tribute.

  285. Janet Carnes Avatar
    Janet Carnes

    So sorry for your loss Kate and thank you for acknowledging the pain felt by those of us who were denied the privilege of caring for our elderly and dying parents during the appalling covid debacle.

  286. Wen-Ti Leong Avatar
    Wen-Ti Leong

    So sorry to hear this. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man who has left you with memories to cherish forever. ❤️

  287. You will live the journey of grief and whatever you knit will be your solace as your mind wanders from memories to knitting.
    It’s a rhythm which guides you.
    Yes your tears will fall but memories will glow too.
    So many deny themselves this journey maybe through fear.
    Do not deny yourself just 1 row at a time thats all.
    Your Father gave you Time now you give him Time too.
    A journey that’s unique and Peace is there to be found.
    I wish you a safe memorable journey with smiles and tears in equal measure.
    Chrissie

  288. Charlotte Krabbenhøft Avatar
    Charlotte Krabbenhøft

    Condolense. ❤️

  289. So sorry for your loss, Kate. What a beautiful tribute to a clearly doting, wonderful father. May you find comfort in knitting ❤️

  290. ❤️ treasured memories

  291. Jenny V Avatar

    Kate—Sending you and everyone who loves Mr Davies our support. Grateful for all the joy he gave the world—especially through you—and all the joy he so clearly soaked in. Thank you for sharing this loving tribute and photos. His love radiates! This whole community is sending you energy as you grieve. I’ll listen to some jazz with my sons this weekend and make some silly faces in honor of your wonderful dad!

  292. Karen Smith Avatar
    Karen Smith

    I am so sorry for your loss – a good father is a wonderful blessing and it seems you and I are among the most blessed. I miss my dad (he died aged 76 in 2017), but am grateful he was my dad every day.
    My heartfelt condolences, Karen

  293. Margaret Spencer Avatar
    Margaret Spencer

    You have my sympathy it isn’t easy.

  294. Sonia Young Avatar
    Sonia Young

    A beautiful tribute to your dad, sending you so much love Kate.

  295. Sending you what we call up here in Shetland a “bosee” (a hug). Such a lovely collection of photos from his full and wonderful life. Thank you for sharing and taking it slowly with knitting is a great way of passing through this difficult time.

  296. Mrs C Whitlock Avatar
    Mrs C Whitlock

    What a wonderful tribute to your dad. Glad you could be with him at his end. Fabulous memories in your email, thank you for sharing. Wishing you and your loved ones all good things for the future.

  297. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s a blessing that he lived.

  298. Toutes mes plus sincères condoléances chère Kate.
    You’re right. Accompany them to the end of their life was a gift for me too. It’s been a year for me and I love still feeling his skin on my lips while kissing him. It’s hard but as long as we live ourselves, they are with us ♥️.

  299. Lucie Rixon Avatar
    Lucie Rixon

    Most sincere condolences to you Kate xx

  300. Jackie Kirkham Avatar
    Jackie Kirkham

    Dear Kate – so very sorry to hear this news. Sending heartfelt condolences and a friendly hug. X

  301. Carolyn Avatar

    ❤️

  302. I’m so sorry to read about your Dad, I’m sending you all my love. Knitting is what will carry you through – I often wonder how those who don’t knit cope at times like this. Christine xx

  303. So sorry to hear your news. I was saddened recently by the death of the composer/jazz pianist Mike Westbrook who I was a big fan of. I’m not any sort of believer but I like to think of all of these jazzers having a great big jam session wherever they are now.

  304. Sheona Bath Avatar
    Sheona Bath

    I’m sorry for your loss. Wishing all the best to you and your family. xx

  305. My condolences on your loss.

    Sitting by my dad, and then my mum as they inched towards their deaths I knitted intensely. It was oddly comforting.

  306. Dawn Wheeler Avatar
    Dawn Wheeler

    My deepest sympathy Kate he was obviously a delightful well loved man. Loosing a loved one is always a time for reflection and sadness but you clearly have lots of memories to remember him by. Take care and keep knitting. I lost my dad 15 years ago and mum 4 years ago I remember both of them every day in some small lovely way.

  307. Hello dear Kate,I’m so so sorry for your loss ! Be well, Warmest greetings from Berlin (Germany)BarbaraP. S. Love your newsletter and knitting!! Here my daughter is wearing your Buchanan. 

  308. It’s so sad to loose one of your parents, I’m feeling with you.
    With a big hug from Germany
    Emaria

  309. So sorry for your loss. What beautiful memories to treasure.

  310. Jan Read Avatar

    So sorry for your loss. What a life well- lived measured by all the love he has left behind.

  311. I’m so sorry to read of the loss of your dear Dad, Kate- what a beautiful and deep relationship you shared. It’s a huge wrench to lose a parent, regardless of the relationship and circumstances, but I’m so glad you can celebrate having such a beautiful man in your life. Sending you a huge hug xx

  312. Love, hugs and condolences. May your wonderful memories help carry you through the sad parting of ways.

  313. The items you are knitting during this time will always feel bittersweet to wear, as memories fill the spaces in the stitches x

  314. Paola Mucciarelli Avatar
    Paola Mucciarelli

    Dear Kate, I’m so sorry for your loss. I can only send you a virtual hug and tell you that such a loved presence never really leaves us — it stays with us. It might sound like a cliché, but it really isn’t.

  315. Thank you for sharing. It sounds like your dad had a long and happy life with you as an important part. My dad was a musician and died at 89. I think we have been blessed with wonderful creative fathers.

    Take care Julie x

  316. My Mum was my knitting buddy, she taught me when I was 5. She’s been gone 2 years now, I miss hear so so much. I send you big hugs.

    ❤️

  317. Kim Magee Avatar
    Kim Magee

    I’m so sorry Kate 💔 I lost my Dad 7 years ago at age 82 and I miss him and think about him everyday. Sending love to you and your family x ❤️

  318. lizant@btinternet.com Avatar
    lizant@btinternet.com

    So sorry for your loss but pleased you had him for so many wonderful years and have so many lovely memories.

    Regards and best wishes

    Liz James

  319. I am so sorry for your loss, Kate.

  320. It’s traumatic losing a loved one- no matter their age or state of health. You’ve done a great tribute to your father. He sounds like a wonderful person. My deepest sympathies. ❤️

  321. hennebelle Avatar
    hennebelle

    Beautiful and moving portrait. Thinking of you…

  322. Donna Lynne Mansi Avatar
    Donna Lynne Mansi

    Girls and their Dads, a special bond💕
    Sit tibi terra levis, Wal

  323. Deborah Garretty Avatar
    Deborah Garretty

    Very sorry for your loss x

  324. Tina Norup Avatar
    Tina Norup

    Love to you 😘

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