everybody is a star

The first thing I heard, when I woke up this morning, was that a US president was deploying marines against US citizens peacefully protesting about the brutal removal of migrants from Los Angeles, itself a proud city of migrants. The second was that Sly Stone had died. I thought of the deep, dark heartsore sound of There’s a Riot Goin’ On and felt very sad indeed.

I first heard Sly in 1990, when my then-boyfriend gave me a tape, which had Caravan’s If I could do it again I’d do it all over you on one side and Sly and the Family Stone’s Greatest Hits (1970) on the other. While the first side suggested the amount of weed I and my pals around Rochdale, Bury and Manchester were smoking that summer, the other pointed to something else entirely.

We’d grown up in working-class communities, which had been shaken by de-industrialisation, unemployment, and the rise of the far right. We’d also grown up as anti-racists, despising the then-prevalent skinhead poison, and dancing energetically to two-tone Ska. I loved the Specials, and in Sly and the Family Stone I discovered another black and white band, who were making an utterly amazing sound, and whose physical presence embodied the straightforward socio-political message of their songs. Plus, the women in Sly and the Family Stone were not shoo-bop backing eye-candy, but actual musicians, with extraordinary trumpeter Cynthia Robinson, up front and centre. The groove was explosive, catchy, physical. Wow!

Sly Stone spoke to me aged 16, and speaks to me now, as dog-whistle hatred once again divides communities and drives the direction of politics around the world. You’ll probably read a lot of judgmental stuff today about drug use and unfulfilled potential, and I’d ask you to ignore that, and focus instead on Sly’s incredible music, and what it said and what it did. Sly’s genius was to take super-simple grooves and nursery rhyme melodies and transform them into affirming celebrations of togetherness and humanity, which not only captured their cultural moment, but took music to another creative place entirely. A better place. Thank you, Sly.

If you’ve not seen it, I recommend the recent Questlove documentary, Sly Lives (aka the Burden of Black Genius) (2025). You’ll find it on Disney.


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37 responses to “everybody is a star”

  1. Jeannette Smyth Avatar
    Jeannette Smyth

    I’d love to see a collection of optimistic Sly/two-tone ska knits from you. He and is music still so inspiring.
    Thanks for this. We got to live together.

  2. Chuckster Avatar
    Chuckster

    Terrific post, and thanks for bringing this death to my attention. Yes, I am one of those Americans numbed by all the chilling executive actions and vitriol, I missed this important fact. Thanks to you, the documentary is on my watch list. ☮️

  3. What is happening in the US right now is appalling — both domestically and internationally. There are many of us trying to right the situation. There is much work to be done.

  4. apgibson54 Avatar
    apgibson54

    Thanks for this, Kate. Growing up in the US in the 70s was a real trip! I, too, love Sly’s music, and absolutely despise what’s happening in our country right now. Thanks for the solidarity. Huge no Kings march all over the US on Saturday! 1800 so far! Amy

  5. HAHA I am a “few” years older than you – I first heard Sly and the Family Stone in 1969 and they were one of my all -time favorite bands – we called them “groups” back then. One of my dreams was to be the white female drummer for Sly — and this Grandma still plays drums:)!

    This weekend, I watched on US TV the Broadway play version of “Good Night and Good Luck” about Edward R. Morrow’s fight with Eugene McCarthy. Plus ca change, plus c’est la meme chose….

    1. hurrah for drummmers!

  6. jfandersson Avatar
    jfandersson

    I resonate with most of the sentiments being expressed here – I grew up in London in the sixties. I am now stateside and wonder each day what new horror awaits. Feeling very insecure. Can you recommend a local real estate person? We are looking longingly at the Argyl area. I look forward to your posts and hearing all about Tom and the dogs, the new mill and your garden. Keep it coming……..

  7. joyfullypassionate2bd2014872 Avatar
    joyfullypassionate2bd2014872

    I confess to the daily U.S. and other countries news being more than I can bare most days. The story that got me today was the U.S. Secretary of Health? Dismissing the entire committee giving advice on vaccines. Many innocent people will suffer as a result of this decision. My song for the day is Bridge Over Troubled Waters. We were so positive in the late 60’s and early 70’s about our ability to make social change. I am glad to have had that experience at least.

  8. Thank you for that heart felt comment re our ‘situation’…..sad doesn’t even begin to describe it. Love from here

  9. Gretchen (aka stashdragon) Avatar
    Gretchen (aka stashdragon)


    Thank you, thank you, thank you, Kate.

  10. Prudence Roberts Avatar
    Prudence Roberts

    I live in Portland, Oregon, and we are all holding our collective breath here, since we are a sanctuary city and thus in the crosshairs. People have already been picked up by ICE goons and we know there are many more horrors to come. We are hoping for a massive turnout for the protests this Saturday, June 14th.

    On a lighter note, if you haven’t seen “Summer of Soul,” I highly recommend it. One of the best music/concert documentaries I’ve ever seen.

    Thank you for your wonderful writing–and knitting!

    1. I also live in a “sanctuary” city. I am thrilled about that, and happy to be in a place that recognizes human rights better than some places.

  11. Linda Y Avatar

    Questlove’s “Summer of Soul” is also a must watch! Includes an appearance by Sly and the band, but also many other stars. And incredible present-day interviews.

    1. It is indeed a fantastic watch

  12. Christel Vanhulle Avatar
    Christel Vanhulle

    Those were the days. Dancing all night to groovy, funcky music. And indeed an antidode to a grim, insane world.

  13. piratefamousb918b32457 Avatar
    piratefamousb918b32457

    Good morning and thank you for this. Life is pretty dark here

    1. Heather in Colorado Avatar
      Heather in Colorado

      Agree!

  14. Millie Mitchell Avatar
    Millie Mitchell

    My sentiments exactly! And the documentary was excellent!

  15. Louise Avatar

    Hi Kate,

    Have enjoyed your posts on your lovely gardens. You were so fortunate to buy a house with such a lovely yard. Under about 2 inches of top soil our ground is basically clay – a challenge for flowers. Please keep an open mind about our president sending in troops to LA, as the rioters, yes, not peaceful protests, were throwing concrete at police and burning cars, in additions to other non-peaceful activities. The LA police did not have the man power to handle the numbers – the police chief made a public statement about how they needed the help. It is sad that actual happenings can get skewered by the news medias.

    I have participated in three of your clubs and really enjoy having the book that accompanies them. My favorite is the stocking book, with your essays on the 18th and 19th C. women. I know your openness on your health struggles have been an inspiration to many. Take care and thank you for all your work. Sincerely, Louise Miller

    1. bethanybrooke1 Avatar
      bethanybrooke1

      …wow, “keep an open mind about our president…” that’s funny, Louise; what rock are you hiding under?

      1. ddaybell Avatar
        ddaybell

        Thank you, Bethany. Louise is incorrect. I lived in Los Angeles for many years. It’s a wonderful, diverse place, which was NOT rioting.

    2. Louise, here in Australia we look on with utter dumbfounded horror at what is unfolding. I sit on a journalism school advisory board where a young researcher has been told by the university’s risk committee she should not present a paper in the US because it’s unsafe.

      Her research is an academic analysis of how Trump has been presented in Western media – and they think she would likely be detained and deported on that basis. How can your country have come to this?

      In my world, people say on a daily basis, “thank God we don’t live there, thank God”. And I do. It is so, so frightening and sad.


  16. Sly and the Family Stone were part of the soundtrack of my teen years. I’ll never forget seeing them perform in the movie version of ‘Woodstock’. Such joy! Such energy! I still listen to their music, and today I plan to have a private dance party to celebrate Sky’s gift to us all. Let’s all “Dance to the Music”!

    1. I’ll be at your party in spirit!

  17. Dear Kate,
    Thank you for giving me something to tune in to, and hang on to.
    Sad and horrifying times. Every day I wake up to read what new horror has been committed by my government.
    Your newsletter from across the ocean, means more to me than you know.
    Cheryl

  18. such a sad loss for the music industry and the world at large. What a groove and what a guy xx


  19. had to play some Sly music last night and now off to look out Caravan. Like most of us I’m hurt and confused by today’s world, and the warnings on radio 4 to prepare ourselves for a situation where there might be no running water and no food in the shops didn’t help my mood. Lifting it with music and knitting!

  20. A great piece, thank you. The world is such a confusing place right now, and somehow music cuts through to touch us.

    Sidenote – without realising, I’d always read your words with a Scottish accent, I did not expect to hear that you grew up in Lancashire! I’ll alter my unconscious reading accordingly :-)

  21. Jenny Sergeant Avatar
    Jenny Sergeant

    Thank you for this post Kate, I enjoy reading your non-yarn craft reflections as well as appreciating your core business activities. Spot on, and interesting juxtaposition of Sly and Caravan.. Thanks for the memory of the latter…’Land of Grey and Pink’ got me through ‘A’ levels ! All best wishes, Jenny Pontefract, Yorkshire

  22. wendyknits Avatar
    wendyknits


    What a lovely thoughtful post — thank you. I have also loved Sly and the Family Stone’s music for a good chunk of my life and reading of Sly’s death yesterday is yet another finger of sadness poking at me.


  23. Well said Kate xxx

  24. meemsy01 Avatar
    meemsy01


    Dusting off the vinyl! Thanks Sly ❤️

  25. Thsnk you so much for writing this, concise and powerful. It’s a very dark world, good to be reminded of the power of music to connect and uplift ud.

  26. pioneeringf6c9fa1e70 Avatar
    pioneeringf6c9fa1e70

    Thanks for the recommendation

  27. Rachel Judson Avatar
    Rachel Judson

    A sad day all round. Gonna turn up the tunes today. Xxx

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