
There are a few books I’ve read, over the past few years, which have really helped me to make sense of the present moment’s general, awful strangeness. Peter Pomerantsev’s This is Not Propaganda (2019), Jenny Odell’s How to Do Nothing (2019), James Bridle’s Ways of Being (2023) and, most recently, Hartmut Rosa’s The Uncontrollability of the World (2020). These are not particularly “easy” books, and they are not comforting reads either, but for one reason or another, each of these authors, and each of these titles, has made me think a little differently, prompted a welcome shift in my perspectives, and, curiously, granted me a little courage to look the present moment in the face, take heart, and then move on.

I thought about Hartmut Rosa’s work recently, when Tom and I were out looking at the night sky, at nearby Dunaverty, during the planetary alignment at the end of last month. Rosa’s thesis is that the relentless drive to bring just a little more of the world within our reach; our ability to have everything available to us, at all times, all at once; and our desire to encounter what is beyond our bounded selves via measurable, controllable “peak” experiences, has, in the twenty-first century, resulted in an alienation more profound than that which separated workers from the fruits of their own labour in the rapidly industrialising economies of the nineteenth-century west. In socio-economic landscapes of measurable outcomes, in algorithmically determined digital environments, in the infinite scroll of contemporary consumer culture, where the promise of offline “retreat” is sought, bought and sold, our experience of what is beyond ourselves has become overwhelmingly instrumental and transactional. Rarely, Rosa argues, do we simply open ourselves to experiencing the world as a place of chance, joy and wonder.

But the world is wonderful, Rosa argues, and to encounter it as such, you have to let go of the desire to always bring it within reach or control it. You might turn on the radio, and hear some music that hasn’t been selected for you by an algorithm, which completely stops you in your tracks – as I did a few weeks ago, when I encountered an extraordinary live recording of Vladimir Horowitz playing a Chopin Mazurka on Radio 3. You might head out, on a completely ordinary errand, to a completely ordinary place and see something of genuine beauty, that just fills your day with joy, like the young boy I saw gazing at a rainbow in the car park of Campbeltown’s Tesco. You might go for a walk, exchange words for a few minutes with a stranger about the incredible beauty of the morning, and then carry on your separate ways, both of you altered, just a little, by your meeting. You could head out, of an evening, with no purpose other than to enjoy the glorious sight of Venus, hovering above the horizon, brightly shining in the gathering darkness over Ireland.

I’ve been burbling about Hartmut Rosa for a while, and when Tom asked me why on earth I was so animated about this book, and I explained it to him in terms similar to those above, he looked at me rather skeptically and said that it all sounded “a bit heavy.” You might well feel the same. But I challenge you to go outside, on a clear night; a night perhaps, when you can see Mars, Jupiter, and Venus all hanging out in the firmament together, and not experience some wonder, some amazement, some feelings of groundedness and connection.

Such sensations — what Rosa would call “resonant” feelings – are dynamic, transformative, and utterly human. This resonance stands in radical opposition to the feelings of overwhelm, consternation – or, in recent weeks, sheer horror – at what is currently happening in some parts of the contemporary, increasingly inhuman-seeming, world. Why not go outside, on a clear winter’s night, and give it a try.
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Thank you for your thoughtful reflections, Kate. I’m prone to stopping in my tracks to gawk at unexpected beauty. I think it is the only sensible reaction. One more thing for you to be grateful for: you have starry skies! For me and, alas, probably for many of us, stars are rarely very visible. Seeing Tom’s lovely photos reminds me of the night sky of my childhood, which always filled me with awe. Just knowing they’re up there helps!
I am surrounded by wonder. I live in 20 bush acres in Tasmania, the small island state at the bottom of Australia: almost literally the bottom of the world. A couple of days ago a wombat wandered last my lounge room window. As I pulled the blinds up this morning, there were wallabies metres away, and as I look out now, one is drinking from the bird bath! As our short Summer starts to fade, the wildflowers, many of them tiny, are beautiful. We have a patch of rainforest with huge, stunning trees.
Wonder? You bet!
What a beautiful part of the world you live in, Denise
My library does not have Hunter Rosa’s book, but I am trying to locate a used copy. I could not get by without looking for wonder in everything around me. I am blessed with having been taught the visceral lesson that every moment is precious (though I have to remind myself to stay present to this!).
Thank you Kate! Resonating with me <3
Thank you for this thoughtful and insightful text, which I actually found more uplifting than heavy.
Thank you for this beautiful read and the recommendations. I am reading Nexus by Yuval Noah Harari right now and have added your titles for further reading. The world is full of wonder… I love reading your musings and the intelligent inspiration stands out in a space where social media so often tries to dumb us down.
Thank you Kate! the world has been heavy, but the planets were spectacular on Saturday evening! this reminder was spot on!!
Wonderful, I may not add the books to my already too long list of reading calling to me but totally feel the resonance of those chance moments of joy and connection you describe. I also recall a Samaritans campaign “Small talk saves lives”…. If anyone is interested you might enjoy the iPlayer series by Simon Sharma “The Story of Us”. He is explaining to me so well the place of culture in our society and seems so passionate and moved which makes it all the more compelling.
I just loved the Schama series, Geraldine – three cheers for culture, and those passionate about it
Wonderful photos and thank you for the reading recommendations! May I offer one in return? I think you would really enjoy The Serviceberry by Robin Wall Kimmerer (and her other two books as well but this one especially).
What an interesting piece of writing. Yes, perhaps heavy, but it makes perfect sense. I am dismayed by the world but unfortunately we are all so connected to everything that we are bombarded every time we look at a phone or computer, and I, personally, find it hard to ignore, so I get bound up in negativity. The stars and planets were wonderful last week, even here in a light polluted suburb of the city and I should be treasuring that memory rather than the horrors on my screens, I certainly envy your beautiful clear skies. I have been fortunate in my life to witness the same in remote areas of the Arabian peninsula and I treasure those memories spent sitting in the dark with the dying embers of a campfire just watching the sky and the sea. Cut off from all news. Off to investigate all those books!